You don’t have to choose between success and fulfillment—build a life that embraces both.
I’m Shilan Parham—an immigrant, a founder, a mother, and a mentor to those ready to lead from the front. I built Outliers Consulting Solutions from the ground up, turning a dream into a thriving business. Now, I help others step into leadership without sacrificing who they are.
I live The And Life—and I’m here to help you live yours.
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- Yusof Jordan
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About Shilan
From immigrant dreamer to CEO, Shilan built a thriving business while staying rooted in purpose, family, and integrity.

The AND LIFE
You don’t have to choose between ambition and softness. The And Life is about leading boldly—while staying true to your values, your family, and yourself.

growth mindset
Success starts in the mind. Learn how discipline, belief, and intentional action helped Shilan—and her mentees—reach new levels in life and leadership.

leading with love
Real leadership isn’t just strategy—it’s empathy, impact, and care.
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the ANd Life

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